We all probably have some doubts about our relationship from time to time. But how can we really understand that our relationship is worth working on? How can we know that this same person is exactly what we need? Try reading these simple statements and asking yourself, “Do we follow these rules?”
We have put together some resources that can help us understand whether or not our relationship is strong and resolve some issues with our partner, if applicable.
How Strong Is Your Relationship?
You Can Discuss Your Future Plans In A Calm Atmosphere
If you can’t plan your future together, every attempt causes anxiety and you can’t discuss anything without arguing, you don’t trust each other. And that kind of relationship has no future. It’s only a matter of time before something happens that breaks the relationship.
In a good relationship, the partners face the future without fear and are very excited about it.
All Your Promises Are Real
In a healthy relationship, people feel safe and trust each other. But can we even mention trust if they forget the promises and requests of others? How can we count on these types of people?
It is essential to respect your partner’s feelings and wishes and not make promises that you cannot keep.
You Don’t Control Each Other
In good relationships, people do not experience the manic desire to control their partner’s life and do not force their views on them. This behavior can be confused with affection, but the real reason is that they want to control everything.
Each partner has their limits and personal hobbies and that is why they are interested in each other.
You Deal Well With Opposite Daily Schedules
If you have your own habits and the two of you can’t come to terms or just don’t want to push yourself, we can’t call that kind of life harmony.
People who respect each other will always find the balance so that both of you feel comfortable.
Your Life Doesn’t Look Like A Lasting Drama
Your life cannot be calm and comfortable if you do not even have the opportunity to talk to your partner if you always have to guess and doubt what is happening, and if you do not know which of your actions will cause tears and silence.
This behavior is a type of manipulation. People who love each other don’t use these methods and they never keep their feelings a secret.
You’re Proud Of Each Other
If you cannot accept the accomplishments of your loved one, it means that your relationship consists of rivalry, envy, low self-esteem, and the desire to control everything.
In a happy family, people are sincerely happy about the successes of others and treat these achievements as celebrations, even if the victories are insignificant.
You Always Care About Your Common Plans
If you don’t care about your partner’s feelings, you will never remember to inform them of a change in plan. You can even hang up the phone and not think twice.
But in a good relationship, people understand that we all have emergencies and don’t shy away from talking about plans that suddenly go wrong.
Also, they are not afraid to face arguments and complaints because common plans can be postponed and arguments can be avoided.
Do you think it is possible to solve all problems by asking the right questions and giving honest answers?
Will this help strengthen your relationship? Do you have anything to add to this list? Share with us in the comments.
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