Every day, around 3 million people around the world go on dates. These encounters can turn into something bigger, like long-lasting relationships or marriage, but you can’t hide from the factors that can destroy the romance and lead to a breakup. We collected 6 key signs that things are going wrong in your relationships.
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You Don’t Have Common Photos
If your partner does not like to be photographed and checks their social networks once a year, then there is no use worrying that there is no photo with you in his/her Instagram profile.
But if your partner keeps taking photos of him/herself and uploading them to social media accounts, ignoring your common photos, then there is reason to think. Either your partner is ashamed of you or they just don’t want to advertise your relationship.
In healthy relationships, you can say, “Let’s take a normal photo” without feeling uncomfortable.
You Don’t Talk Much, But, Rather, You Watch Movies A Lot During Your Dates
There is nothing wrong with watching your favorite sitcom or a new movie together from time to time, but if you spend all your meetings watching TV or watching a movie on your computer, that’s not normal.
Pay attention to the emotions you feel after these meetings. If you need to watch something just because you don’t have common topics to talk about or simply because it’s not interesting to your partner, it’s something to think about. Do you really need these relationships?
You Hardly Ever Quarrel
In general, the absence of fights is good, but only in case, you can work things out patiently and calmly, listening to each other.
However, if you don’t have fights and instead hold on to a lot of offenses between you, or if one of you complains and the other forgets within 10 seconds, this is a real sign that the relationship is not healthy. Sooner or later it will collapse under an avalanche of mutual accusations.
You Rarely Hug Each Other
Here, too, there are two options for developing relationships. The first is when partners show their feelings in different ways. They can cook a delicious dinner, buy a nice gift, or just help each other when needed. But what if one or both partners don’t like hugs? You can admit it or try to argue it.
The second option is when the partners don’t care about each other. They don’t want anything loving and they don’t show their love in different ways. It’s probably because it’s not there.
You Are Indifferent To Each Other’s Success
Sometimes, difficult and remarkable situations occur in our lives. At these times, your partner may be a bit indifferent.
But if your talents and accomplishments are regularly ignored or worse yet, your partner looks down on you, then that’s another sign. Do you really need a person who always wants to look better and more important than you?
You Make Each Other Lie
Does your partner make you tell lies when you don’t want to see someone? This is an alarm. Either you can’t solve the problem yourself simply by saying “No” to the person you don’t want to see, or you don’t want to see your friends and relatives, and therefore you think of making excuses as your prerogative.
Both situations speak of immaturity and that your partner does not care about anything; don’t even try to get along with the people around you.
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