Some relationships can be safely called toxic – they literally poison people emotionally. It occurs when one of the partners is driven by selfish motives and a desire for power over another. But sometimes our conclusions about the alleged perpetrator are far from the truth.
To understand the true causes of what is happening in your relationship, We suggest looking at some cases from a different angle.
Signs That Show Someone Loves You
Constant Preaching
Yes, that’s annoying. “You could do this. You could do that.” But is this really your partner’s dislike of you? Take a closer look.
Perhaps they are just sure that you are capable of more, or they think you were wrong to bury your talent. It is true when they say that the spectators see more than the players.
And Nothing But The Truth
Be honest: When you ask a question, do you really want to hear the actual answer, or do you just want confirmation that you are right?
It is very important that you answer this question yourself first so that you do not look for ill intentions in your loved one’s overly direct answers later on.
Estrangement In Reply To Estrangement
Love is a roller coaster. It arises when feelings arise with renewed vigor and descends when everyday life and problems begin to exert their pernicious influence.
If your partner needs time alone to deal with their problems, don’t consider it the end of your relationship. Take a rest.
Dissatisfaction With Your Appearance
Deep down, each of us desperately needs praise to convince us that appearance is not the yardstick by which a good person is judged.
But if you’ve suddenly gained weight and left you breathless, your partner’s comments can be attributed to worrying about your health rather than wanting to offend you.
Spending Leisure Time Apart
We all have different personalities, interests, and contact circles. If your partner is a fan of fishing and a nature enthusiast, while you enjoy bowling and boisterous parties, do not be offended that he does not invite you to the lake. Just remember how bored you were last time.
Distancing After Quarrels
All people fight from time to time. It is normal. But it is not normal to expect your partner to come running to reconcile immediately.
We all need time to calm down and consider our feelings and the words we say. This is a need, not a desire to make it hurt even more.
