How often before bed do you wonder if you are satisfied with just following through with the day’s tasks? Home – work – home, weird meetings with friends, cleaning on Saturdays, and bullying 2 seasons of a TV show on Sundays – do you feel comfortable living like this?
It may sound good at first, but if you dig deeper, you’ll see that there is a huge gap between your ideas about life and reality. Let’s get over it.
We collected 6 signs for you that your life is gradually getting worse. From time to time, we can all recognize ourselves in these situations.
But if they have become the norm in your life, the problem may be more serious than you think. On the plus side though, realizing the problem is the first step to solving it.
6. Nothing In This World Interests You
You think that there is nothing else in this world that can surprise you and you raise your eyebrows skeptically at any news. (“Was a rocket sent to Mars?” Yes, what a great achievement, whatever. A new vaccine is being tested? “So what?”)
A person’s age is determined not only by his passport numbers, but also by the ability to find something new for themselves, learn, and develop.
How many events in your life in recent years have made you say “Wow!” Excited? If the answer is not much, you must do something about it urgently.
5. You Don’t Care About Yourself Or Your Home
If you could not care less about your appearance, and the last time you cleaned your house was in the past month, this is a clear sign of a personal crisis.
The indifference towards your body and the environment that surrounds you only says that not everything is going well in your life and, in addition, you have accepted this and given up on everything.
There is a reason why people say that if you want life to change, you should start by getting your house in order.
Cleaning is extremely helpful – it distracts sad thoughts and helps sort out the mess in your head. Women are also advised to go to the hairdresser as a kind of therapy.
4. You Hate Your Job
The workday has just begun and you are already counting the hours, waiting for it to end. Seeing that it is only Wednesday, you despair and frantically search for a reason to leave early.
You ask yourself when you are going to get a vacation? And then you remember that you had one 2 weeks ago…
Hating your job is a clear sign that something needs to be changed. You may not like your boring role, your hostile colleagues, or having to cross the city every day during rush hours.
If you understand the true cause of your discontent, it will be easier to find a way out of the situation.
3. You Refuse To Communicate
Everyone needs personal space, but if you don’t want to see or hear anyone, avoid your friends and family and go into “incognito” mode to browse social media, then the situation is getting out of control.
Do you remember Holly, the heroine of the movie P. S. I love you? It was her family and friends who helped her emerge from the abyss of longing and despair.
People close to you probably just wish you well, and your situation is not so peculiar that no one in your family circle or close friends is helping you figure out how to get out of it.
You never know, maybe they can give you the most valuable advice to help you fix everything.
2. Everything Angers And Annoys You
You start to get irritated by literally everything: a trash can your husband forgot to take out, your son’s poor grades at school, the weather outside, and the color of your nail polish. You easily lose your patience and goes from crying to anger and vice versa.
A constant search for the negative in your surrounding world speaks of unsolved problems that bother you and spill out into nitpicking and aggression.
All of this will stop if you honestly admit to yourself what you really care about and eliminate this problem.
1. You Have A Lot Of Bad Habits
Another way to deal with problems is to enlist the help of bad habits, such as alcohol, cigarettes, gluttony, or surfing the Internet at midnight.
But they only create the appearance that you have control over your life. In fact, it is nothing more than an attempt to hide your head even deeper in the sand.
Interestingly, your bad habits can say a lot about you. For example, if you love to destroy something, then the current state of things in life does not suit you. Unconsciously you want to change something and find it difficult to relax.
Perhaps you’ve read this article out of curiosity and can safely say, “It’s not about me.” In that case, we are sincerely happy for you.
But if you find yourself in any of these situations, don’t put off the solution for later. You only have one life and you have to live it well.
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