Have you ever noticed that good people are often not highly respected? They help others, they are patient, they don’t hold a grudge, but for whatever reason, they feel constantly sad and lonely.
Psychologists believe that the reason for this is mistakes in the way these people behave. We have described their reasoning for you with the help of some illustrations.
Signs You Have A Low Sense Of Self-Worth
You suppress your own needs for the sake of peace, but the world just doesn’t realize it. And when people offend you, you feel uncomfortable with the culprit. This approach will inevitably mean that people will continually annoy you.
Don’t be afraid to tell the world what you don’t like. It may not cost people anything to meet you halfway. On the other hand, no one will notice your unnecessary personal sacrifice.
A Lack Of Self-respect
You don’t seem to feel it when people bump into you, or when you close your eyes to those awkward little moments. But someone who is rude by nature will not love or respect you for it. So why do you tolerate this?
If someone behaves in a way that suggests they don’t give a shit about you, that means they don’t really care. Don’t make excuses for rude people. Respect yourself.
Being Dependent On The Approval Of Others
People who have a pathological need for the approval of other people unconsciously point out that something is wrong with them. And people who others think have something wrong with them are generally avoided by almost everyone.
Stop expecting compliments. You don’t need to hear that you are a good person to really be one. And don’t be afraid of criticism. People will criticize you over and over for just about anything you do, for one reason or another. Your opinion of yourself should always be the most important.
Searching For The Source Of Problems Only Within Yourself
You automatically think people are right, except when it comes to you. You take responsibility for what happens around you. No one will thank you. But taking advantage of you and making your life even more difficult may be easier for other people in these circumstances.
Finding those who make mistakes is a thankless task. Torturing yourself will not bring love or pity from others. It is better to focus your efforts on finding a solution to the problem.
Emphasizing your virtues and begging for respect is the foundation of a dependent relationship. When you try to convince the people around you that you are a good person, you will only end up getting rejected. Even if you really are a good person.
You can only show that you are worth something if you really believe that you are yourself. When you know your own worth, you don’t have to prove it to anyone.
A Fear Of Rejection
You don’t want to upset anyone, even if it makes you unhappy. You pretend that it is okay to prevent others from worrying because you are not satisfied. And the result is that you are often not satisfied.
Don’t be afraid to say “no”. Even the nicest people in the world can try using it if you let them. Help others only when you want to help them.