Falling in love is a beautiful thing. It can make you feel like the world is full of possibilities, and it can even make you feel more secure about your own life. But there are some things that people do when they’re falling for someone that is actually dangerous for their mental health.

Here are five things I’ve learned about falling in love over the years:

Don’t get too close to people.

Don’t let people in.

Don’t let people see you cry.

Pretend you don’t care if they leave or not, because it will be better for both of you to end things before getting too close and ruining everything. This can also help prevent them from getting attached to you and leaving when they realize how bad things are between the two of you, which means there’s less chance of them leaving later on down the line (which could lead us to another point).

Don’t let people in.

Don’t let people see you care. It’s easy to fall in love with someone when they’re not looking at you. They might be happy that you’re there and friendly, but they don’t know how much it means to them if they aren’t getting anything back from your attention.

Don’t let people know how much they mean to you. When someone is going through something bad or difficult, it can make them feel worse about themselves if there are others who don’t understand what’s happening or why things have gone so wrong for them lately—so try not letting anyone else feel like this either!

Pretend you don’t care.

Pretend you don’t care. When you feel like the only thing that matters is getting your love life right, it’s easy to let people in and think about them too much. But if you want to avoid falling in love with someone who isn’t going to last, then this isn’t the best strategy for avoiding it.

Don’t let anyone see you cry—or even get close enough that they might notice how sad or upset you are when your heart breaks (and trust us: there will be tears).

There’s nothing worse than having someone see how vulnerable and broken down an individual can be when they’re feeling down on their luck or unhappy about something else happening in their lives; this will only make things worse by giving them ideas about what kind of person would make someone like themselves feel good again!

Don’t let people see you cry.

If you are going to fall in love, it is important to keep your guard up and not let people see you cry. It is also important to not let people see you sad. If someone sees this, they might think that their feelings for them are stronger than they actually are and could lead them into an abusive relationship with them or their family members.

It is best if these types of relationships do not happen at all so that no one has any idea about how vulnerable or weak someone else feels when faced with strong emotions from another person who cares deeply about them!

Shut down emotionally.

Shut down emotionally.

Do not let yourself be vulnerable.

Do not let other people see you cry.

Do not let other people get too close, because this can lead to a lot of hurt feelings and broken hearts later on down the line (and also because it’s just plain rude). It’s also important that we all remember that no one wants to feel like they’re being used as a rebound by someone else—and no one wants their emotions thrown back at them like this either!


If you’re looking for a way to avoid falling in love, these tips will help. It may seem like an emotionally draining process but the key is to keep your emotions under control and always remember that there are other people out there who want nothing more than friendship with you.

With these tips in mind, we hope this article helped you learn how to stay safe from falling in love!